Q&A

How do you get someone to open up that doesn't know how? Or rather, isn't interested? What do you do when subtle hints get you no where and even what seems to you to be an obvious, 'please give me an answer,' kind of a question equals no results? Do you cease to try? And if so, what does that mean? I'm finding that the patience I once had has evaporated. The patience that would enable me to wait longer than I thought possible for the ultimate "payout"; however, waiting created the opposite of what I thought it would, it formed chaos and heartache. At the moment, I feel as if one should do what they say they are going to and not waste my time. I don't know if this impatience is good or not, I recognize it from a very long time ago and I am worried that I have to balance an anti-social me with one that can't be alone.